Are you being realistic?  Are you being honest about yourself?  Are you being honest about what you really want out of a relationship?  Do you know what you want?  Do you know what sort of lifestyle you want in the future?    You may need some help with this - all of these questions & others can be answered by purchasing my Perfect Partner Hypnotherapy Download for only £20.00.  

My Perfect Partner download will gently probe your subconscious mind time & time again & in fact each time you listen to it you will find that your thoughts are clearer.  You will be clearer as to the type of partner you wish to attract & the type of relationship that you want with that person.   I have done the hard work for you!  I have devised the questions, all you need to do is answer them!  Infact, No!  All you need to do is lie down, relax & your subconscious will do the rest of the hard work for you!

Get a decent photograph of yourself!
We are all visual & we all like to see someone who looks like they take care of themselves!  It does not matter if you are overweight, what matters is that you are smiling, your clothes fit properly - no bellies hanging out & no muffin tops please!  Do not, under any circumstances use photographs which are over a year old & never post someone else’s photo up pretending to be you to attract more replies!  

My good friend Babz Bell, a graphic artist who has enhanced the odd photo of me is a good place to start.  She will gently erase the odd pound here & there, as if by magic.  She will maybe soften the picture to create a mood, maybe blur out the background of an otherwise fantastic photo.  She is extremely efficient & will have your photo back to you, digitally enhanced in a flash!

A relationship based on lies, even little white ones are likely to fail!  Why?  Because if you lie about the little things when you don’t even need to then what other lies have been told in the past?  And how more lies will be told in the future?

Again, don’t lie!  If you used to like a particular activity, there is no harm in mentioning that you would like to pursue it again in the future.  Don’t pretend to like an activity if you don’t otherwise your relationship may flounder.  Why?  Little white lies?  Be honest!  And be interesting.  Everyone likes the cinema, eating, drinking, the sunsets, going on holiday etc.  Show your potential Soul Date that you are flexible, you enjoy trying out new things but also mention what you don’t like as well!  If you are allergic to cats note it down!  If you are female & love drinking real ale put it down!  You’ll only get caught out later on!

This is another important one – don’t lie!  You will get found out!  If you hate smoking pop it on your profile.  If you don’t smoke but don’t mind others smoking then put that on instead.  If you don’t want a regular drinker as a partner then jot that down too.

Do you want friendship, romance, fun or your soul mate?  Let the other people on Soul Dates know!  You have more chance of success the more honest you are with yourself!

Now you have filled in your profile, with possibly a little thought & attention, you need to start looking at other people’s profiles.
If they haven’t got a photograph – bin them.
If they have posted a poor photo – don’t necessarily bin them but look carefully.  Is it because they are technically challenged or is it because they are lazy?  Maybe they don’t want to have a clear photo on the website.  If so, what is it they’re trying to hide?
Have they sent an ‘ice breaker’?  I personally would bin most of them, especially the ones with the corny Hi There! or Looking for Love!  But, before you press Delete, Delete, Delete check out the age group, the photos, marital status, children & occupation.  If the rest seems OK then go on further to reading their profile.  On average 1 in 10 ‘ice breakers’ could be hiding a gem!

If you think the other person sounds nice, let them know!  If you like the sound of their profile, let them know!  If you want to find out more about them – ask them!

If they live the other side of the country how is this realistically going to work for you if things progress further than sending emails?  If they have teenage children & yours are grown up do you really want to get involved?  If they are tee total & you enjoy a nice bottle of wine every night…. You know where I’m going here!

I believe in Soul Dates, the concept is great.  It has one of the largest data bases in the whole of the UK so if you ‘work it’ to your advantage there is every chance of you finding that Soul Date who may be your elusive soul mate!  The one that you’ve been waiting & waiting for!

Never give any personal details out about yourself until you feel comfortable & that includes details about where your children go to school, what gym you’re a member of etc - remember the person may not be who they say they are
Don’t spend too long sending emails to each other – the more email communication the more personal details you are divulging.  
Arrange to speak to them on the phone prior to meeting them.  You can learn a lot from how someone speaks – follow your instincts.  If you are female arrange to make the connection & possibly withhold your number.  If the man is genuine he will respect your caution.
When arranging the first date, go somewhere neutral – maybe a bar for a drink in the town centre.  Somewhere where it is easy to get a cab home & where there are lots of people.  If the date goes well you can then retire to a reasonably priced restaurant.

Don’t bang on about your ex
Don’t divulge too much about your financial situation
Don’t divulge too much about your ‘date diary’
Don’t be too ready to arrange a second date – check your diary which is at home – of course!
Do not go back to their house
Do not sleep with them

Analyse - was he/she interested in you or did the conversation revolve around them?
If a man expects you to pay on the first date I personally would bin him.  This may sound mercenary but it is not.  If he can’t pay for a reasonably priced meal then I don’t really see a future – do you?
If you wish to see the person again ring to thank them for last night.  Either way it is polite to thank someone if they have taken you out so if you don’t want to see them again maybe text them or thank them through the website www.souldates.co.uk
Do not loiter on the phone – only spend a couple of minutes maximum on the phone unless the other party wishes to chat further.  
End this telephone conversation after 10 minutes maximum.  This way you’re not giving away too much about your feelings.
Keep the thrill of the chase!  & Enjoy!

Dating can be & is fun
Enjoy going out, dressing up, meeting new people - enjoying yourself
Don’t feel bad about dating (not sleeping with!) two or three people at once
Don’t be in any hurry to settle down into a sexual relationship - wait until you are sure of the person & their feelings towards you1
There are thousands of men & thousands of women in this world of ours – you will find your soul mate with just a little help from Soul Dates!
What are you waiting for?

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